leadership is a social accomplishment…thinking gray

In shades of gray, let thoughts sway,  
Not firm, but open, day by day.  
Unless required, let opinions slide,  
In ambiguity, learn to abide.  

Think boundless, wild, and free,  
Beyond the norms, let your mind flee.  
Outrageous paths, boldly tread,  
Where ideas dance, unafraid, ahead.  

Listen first, then share your part,  
With artful ear, open your heart.  
In silence find, the truth’s outline,  
Talk later, after listening fine.  

Experts guide, but don’t confine,  
Your own thoughts must align.  
Critical thinking, discernment’s key,  
In your wisdom, let yourself be free.  

Pseudoscience, in guise, may tread,  
Masquerading truths, best left unsaid.  
Serve not, nor lead astray,  
Seek wisdom’s light, in true display.  

In subtext, gold, quietly lies,  
Beyond the ephemeral, your spirit flies.  
Let lieutenants news relay,  
In deeper meanings, find your way.  

Decisions, when to hold, when to fold,  
Delegate, or wait, let courage be bold.  
Not today, then perhaps, tomorrow,  
In patience, avoid undue sorrow.  

Forget the past, its cost, its pain,  
Future’s decisions, let them reign.  
Yesterday’s errors, let them pass,  
Forward move, with new class.  

Defeated foes, offer grace,  
Humiliation’s not your ace.  
In victory, kindness show,  
Let gentleness in leadership flow.  

Choose your hill, know your fight,  
But retreat when not right.  
In battles chosen, wisdom’s light,  
Guides you through the darkest night.  

Serve those who stand by your side,  
In their success, let your pride reside.  
Recruit, support, in them believe,  
Together, greatness you’ll achieve.  

To do, not just to be,  
Leadership’s true key.  
In action, not in title, find,  
The leader’s heart, noble and kind.  

Lead not the group, but souls within,  
Their collective force, a symphony’s din.  
Motion, substance, together bound,  
In their unity, purpose found.  

See people, not as black or white,  
But shades between, in different light.  
Bring out the best, minimize the worst,  
In this endeavor, be immerse.  

Originality, your path to grace,  
Excellence, in your unique pace.  
Unconventional, the road you pave,  
In authenticity, be brave.  

These ideas are not mine. This poem is inspired and rewrites the ideas of Brian (S B) Sample (2002) The Contrarian’s Guide to Leadership.  Jossey-Bass. He does a much better job. See shauncoffey.blog/2020/05/18/reb…

Reality is too big for our little heads…use models not mindsets to think

Persistent problems often seem intractable because of the frame through which we view them.  A fixed point of view on an issue may lead us to struggle because we are trying to solve the wrong problem.”

Elizabeth Heichler, 2022 MIT Sloan Management Review. Summer 2022 v 63(4) P.1

“Reality is too big for our little heads. So we use simplifications of reality to deal with it, impressions of reality: ideas, concepts, frames, models, forms, and theories. These help to explain the reality we encounter. Hence, our choice is not between them, let’s say, theory and reality, so much as between alternative theories of reality. Logically, we choose the theory that is most useful under the circumstances – not the best, but the best available – no matter how imperfect it may be.”

Henry Mintzberg (2023) Understanding Organizations…Finally!  P.119

The vision of a leader is a rallying point for followers

Vision creates the focus for the organisation; results get attention; and communication pulls it together.

 In “Leadership is an art”, Max DePree states  “the first responsibility of a leader is to define reality”. Visioning  can be seen as an ongoing process of orienting an organisation to the emerging realities of the outside environment. 

The leader is the direction setter and must define the vision – and it is the subordinates who must define the objectives that move the organisation toward those goals.

Thus, the first task of effective leadership must be to have a vision that is compelling enough to command attention – to win commitment of the members of the organisation so they are motivated to achieve common goals.  

A shared vision :

  • creates alignment and common purpose;
  • allow peoples meet the need to do meaningful work;
  • increases the discretionary efforts put into the task;
  • defends against the forces of doubt, cynicism and self-interest; and
  • encourages risk taking.

However, having a compelling vision alone is inadequate for accomplishment as a leader, and must be complemented by communication and relationship building skills.

When leading what you do, and how you do it, are more critical than what you say.

 Millions of words are written annually about leadership. What do they look like in practice?

Look at Christopher Wren – his convictions, not his structural columns, support London

“The noted English architect Sir Christopher Wren once built a structure in London.  His employers claimed that a certain span Wren planned was too wide, that he would need another row of columns for support. Sir Christopher, after some discussion, acquiesced.  He added the row of columns, but he left a space between the unnecessary columns and the beams above. “

“The worthies of London could not see this space from the ground. To this day, the beam has not sagged.  The columns still stand firm, supporting nothing but Wren’s conviction.”

“Leadership is much more than an art, a belief, a condition of heart, than a set of things to do. “

“The visible signs of artful leadership are expressed, ultimately, in its practice.”

Think about it: The visible signs of  leadership are expressed in its practice.

  • How do you express your leadership? What is the “group”
  • What are your convictions?

Wren knew what his job was, understood the difference between wants and needs, was data driven…and importantly had a strength of purpose. He delivered a result without compromising his convictions.

There is a big message in the empty space between Wren’s columns and beams.

He found a way forward, and was prepared to stand by, and be judged against, his convictions.

Quotes from M O De Pree (1989)  Leadership is an Art.   Melbourne: Australian Business Library, Information Australia. pp.   135-136